“If you concentrate
on finding whatever is good in every situation,
you will discover that your
life will suddenly be filled with gratitude,
a feeling that nurtures the
soul” (Rabbi Harold Kushner)
Is the glass half full or
half empty? This is just one of the most common of the many metaphors used to
contrast optimism with pessimism. It is also said that an optimist sees
daylight at the end of a tunnel, whereas a pessimist sees the headlights of an
oncoming train. Optimists believe that every cloud has a silver lining, while
pessimists just see the potential for rain. Optimists see the doughnut, pessimists
see the hole.
Keeping your glass half full is a matter of what you
pay attention to. If you focus on the
positive aspects of a situation, this does not mean you are denying the
negative, it’s simply that you are making a conscious decision to seek God’s
guidance rather than evil’s plan; encouragement rather than discouragement.
One way to focus on the half-full part of the glass is
to express gratitude for what you have or what you have experienced,
what God gives to you and what God had done for you. I know, it is not always easy to recognize the
things in our lives for which we should be thankful, particularly when we are
unhappy, it can be annoying to be told to cheer up and be grateful that we have
home, family, health, and so on. However, this is precisely what God wants us
to do and what we should do. People who show their appreciation are those who
are enthusiastic, energetic, faithful, and optimistic, and they experience less
stress and depression. They are free to love God and others because they
appreciate life the most.
There is no doubt that
when the going is tough it is more difficult to be grateful than when things
are going well. However, it is during the hard times that we need gratitude the
most. Like my previous post, true Christians will surely be rejected and
persecuted – either spiritually or physical or mentally – but they are also
optimist about the future for “God causes all things to work together for good to those who
love God, to those who are called according to His purpose” (Romans
8:28) and “God
blesses you when people mock you and persecute you… For great reward awaits you
in heaven” (Matthew 5:11-12).
Yes, optimist Christians see the glass half full.
THINK BIG.
START SMALL. GO DEEP.
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