Wednesday, September 25, 2019

Angelus' Quote: Three (3) Responses for Keeping the ‘Monkeys’ off Your Back



Dr. Kenneth Blanchard, the co-author of The One-Minute Manager, says, “You are helping your people too much if you take responsibility for the care and feeding of their monkeys🐒🙊🙉 ‘Monkey’ in this context refers to the tasks, jobs or problems that are the responsibility of other people. If you take other people’s ‘monkeys’ (responsibilities) on your back too much it will add unnecessary stress to your life and reduce your time for your own main responsibilities.

Here are three (3) responses for keeping the ‘monkeys’ on other people’s backs and off of yours:

1) SUPPORTIVE RESPONSE 🐵 State that you understand the complexity of the other’s problem and that you are willing to talk with them about how they (not you!) can get is solved

2) DELEGATING RESPONSE 🐵 Inform others that this is their responsibility, but give them some suggestions they might try

3) COACHING RESPONSE 🐵 If you feel others do not have the ability to handle their ‘monkeys’ then give them specific directions. Explain the next move or strategy or resources that you would recommend and then supervise what they do

Remember, I repeat, DON’T TAKE other people’s ‘monkeys’! 🙊🙉🐒 #ServeToLead

THINK BIG. START SMALL. GO DEEP.


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Angelus' Quote: Nuan Enda Tau Betuai ka Allah Taala enggau Duit



Am ngau aku macha Bup Kudus jako Iban @ Injil Matius 😉📖🔥Nuan ulih betanya ngagai aku enti nuan deka nemu lebih agi reti Jako nyak. Tulis ba "Comment" dibaroh 👇

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Angelus' Quote: TUHAN Melihat Karakter bukan Reputasi



Semasa mengkaji Alkitab, saya mendapati bahawa selepas kematian Raja Solomo, kerajaan Daud berpecah menjadi dua iaitu Kerajaan Israel dan Kerajaan Yehuda (baca 1 Raja-Raja 12). Apabila dilihat semua senarai para raja di Israel pada ketika itu, hampir semua - 99.9% - daripada mereka jahat.

Ini yang menarik: Setiap kali nama para raja Israel disebut ia akan diakhiri dengan ayat "...jahat di mata TUHAN" (contoh 16:7, 19). Tetapi apabila dilihat pula senarai para raja di Yehuda, ada beberapa orang raja yang baik dalam 6-7 orang dan ayat yang digunakan ialah "...benar di mata TUHAN" (contoh 22:43).

Ini yang lebih menarik: Tidak kira berapa hebat secara luaran para raja atau pemimpin ketika itu - dan sekarang juga - apa yang penting ialah TUHAN "melihat hati" (1 Samuel 16:7) bukan reputasi. Reputasi ialah apa yang orang lain lihat tentang kita, tetapi karakter ialah apa yang TUHAN lihat di dalam kita. Bina karakter dari dalam kamu mulai dari sekarang dan jangan terlalu taksub dengan reputasi kamu 😉⚡ Adakah karakter peribadi kamu lebih besar daripada reputasi yang orang bagi kepada kamu? #ServeToLead #GrowingLeader #LeadLikeJesus

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Angelus' Quote: Buku-Buku yang Kamu Baca akan Mempengaruhi Masa Depan Kamu



Baca Buku, Kembangkan Ilmu, Perbaharui Fikiranmu 😉 #LetsMakeReadingCoolAgain #LeadersAreReaders

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Angelus' Quote: Four (4) Keys to Avoid and Escape Over-Commitment



I believe that over commitment is one of the main reasons why leaders burn out 😥 In James Altucher's book Power of No, he writes, “When you say yes to something you don’t want to do, here is the result: you hate what you are doing, you resent the person who asked you, and you hurt yourself.” If leaders do these, there are no fun!

To help you to avoid and escape over commitment trap I have four (4) keys idea for you to implement in your leadership and life:

1) KNOW YOUR PRIORITIES Constantly remind yourself what your personal and professional priorities are. Make a list of what is really important to you in the long run

2) TAKE THINGS AS THEY COME 😉 Life is filled with moments that give rise to tension. Retrain your brain not to worry about the unknown. React to things as they come and you will be able to solve problems that arise

3) MAKE TIME FOR SOLITUDE Loneliness comes from emptiness, but solitude comes from wholeness. Take time each day to spent time with yourself. For me, I go for a walk, run, weight lifting, reading or just enjoy watching the trees. These self-time activities will reduce the pressure, clear your mind and become refreshed

4) BRING GOD INTO YOUR SITUATION 🙏 If you seek His guidance and receive His blessing of peace (shalom), you will be better able to handle any situation. Take time to meditate His Word and for prayer

Don't let the extra weights of tension, over commitment, and misplaced priorities cause you to lose your grip on what is really important in your life. In trying to hold onto and/or do too much, you could risk it all. Not worth it 👎 #ServeToLead

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Angelus' Quote: There are 3 Types of People, Which One Are You?



Jayson Zabate is smart because he said, "I don't believe in luck or in hard work without the so-called 'work smart.' It's not all about how you work hard but it's about how you manage your time, resources, mind to work together for a better output" 😉⚡✔

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Angelus' Quote: Leadership Is About Taking Responsibility



Leaders take responsibility for their actions and for their decisions. Leaders are not always right and don't always make the right decisions. But when they make decisions, they make those decisions right. A [real] leader doesn't make excuses or place blame on others. Al Kaltman, author and speaker, writes, "Good [leaders] realize that they alone are ultimately responsible for the success or failure of their efforts. They do not establish alibis or look to lay blame on others."

If leaders don't like the outcomes of their actions and decisions, they make changes and taking full responsibility for implementing those changes. I once told a CF president, "If something goes wrong, take the blame. If something goes well, share the credit with the committees." He was surprised. I told him that leaders must take ownership and responsibility by holding ourselves to a standard of results 💪✊🤝 #ServeToLead

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