Dear Annabel,
Divorce is probably one of the hardest
things your parents will face in their lives. This might seem confusing to you
because, after all, they are the ones who decided to get divorced. If you ask
me, why are they doing it? My answer would be: I couldn’t know exactly.
All I know is, Bel, they are unhappy with
each other. Unhappy parents create
unhappy homes. I believe that your family has a better chance of happiness
if the two of them live apart. I know that no matter how hard they tried to
make the marriage work (I was consulting your father at that time), they just
don’t feel they can.
Divorce
is a tough decision. Your parents probably know that you want them to stay
together, and they might feel terribly guilty about it… but feeling guilty is
no reason to stay married. I know that they don’t want this to happen either,
they were thinking about you too – you
must know that! – but sometimes in marriage, divorce is unavoidable. It
shouldn’t be the first choice, nor the second, nor is the third but in the case
of your parents, divorced the best
option.
I
and your aunt will meet you soon, then we can talk about this matter in detail.
Meanwhile, take care and focus on your study and keep your faith in Christ.
Pray, He understands.
Love,
Angelus
THINK BIG.
START SMALL. GO DEEP.
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