Monday, June 16, 2014

Leadership in the Church


 
If anyone wants to provide leadership in the church, good! But there are preconditions: A leader must be well-thought-of, committed to his wife, cool and collected, accessible, and hospitable. He must know what he’s talking about, not be overfond of wine, not pushy but gentle, not thin-skinned, not money-hungry. He must handle his own affairs well, attentive to his own children and having their respect. For if someone is unable to handle his own affairs, how can he take care of God’s church? He must not be a new believer, lest the position go to his head and the Devil trip him up. Outsiders must think well of him, or else the Devil will figure out a way to lure him into his trap.

The same goes for those who want to be servants in the church: serious, not deceitful, not too free with the bottle, not in it for what they can get out of it. They must be reverent before the mystery of the faith, not using their position to try to run things. Let them prove themselves first. If they show they can do it, take them on. No exceptions are to be made for women—same qualifications: serious, dependable, not sharp-tongued, not overfond of wine. Servants in the church are to be committed to their spouses, attentive to their own children, and diligent in looking after their own affairs. Those who do this servant work will come to be highly respected, a real credit to this Jesus-faith.

THINK BIG. START SMALL. GO DEEP.
[Quote from 1 Timothy 3:1-13, The Message (MSG) Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson]
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Friday, June 13, 2014

John MacArthur on Discipleship (not Spectatorship)



“Now these are the gifts Christ gave to the church: the apostles, the prophets,
 the evangelists, and the pastors and teachers.  Their responsibility is
 to equip God’s people to do his work and build up the church, the body of Christ
.”
(Ephesians 4:11-12, NLT)

What are the marks of an effective church? Here are few essential marks of an effective church by John MacArthur which consists of godly leadership, biblical goals, discipleship, outreach, concern for one another, a commitment to the family, biblical teaching & preaching, a willingness to change and worship. Under discipleship, John writes,

“The church is not an arena where a professional preacher/minister is cheered on by laypeople who are nothing more than spectators. The church should be discipling and training Christians for ministry. Church members, not just staff, are supposed to be ministering. That is the point of Ephesians 4:11-12. Apostles, prophets, evangelists, and pastor-teachers are given to equip the saints to do the work of ministry.

All of this results from discipleship. Discipleship is the ministry of developing deeply spiritual friendships focusing on the teaching biblical truth, applying Scripture to life, and thus learning to solve problems biblically. It must be reinforced by a godly example, not just delivered as a set of academic precepts. Therefore, discipleship involves time and personal involvement with people. Jesus’ earthly ministry to His own disciples is the biblical model. The church must provide an environment that encourages that kind of discipleship at every level, from the pastor to the newest convert.”
[Quote from John MacArthur, Ashamed of the Gospel: When the Church becomes like the World (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway Books, 2010), pg. 193]

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Thursday, June 12, 2014

Kenapa Kebanyakkan Orang Tidak Tahu Perkara Sebenar: "Awak dari Sarawak ker Malaysia?"


Banyak cerita saya dengar dari rakan-rakan dan pelajar-pelajar dari Sarawak yang bekerja atau melawat atau belajar di Semenanjung Malaysia (malah melalui pengalaman saya sendiri) mengenai hal tentang dimana kami berasal. Ada yang secara sengaja bertanya, “Kamu tinggal di atas pokok ka?” Ada yang menyindir, “Kamu makan apa disana?” Ada yang langsung tidak sedar akan kebodohan mereka dengan memberi ucapan: “Selamat datang ke Malaysia.” Kadang-kadang saya marah dengan kenyataan ‘bodoh’ sebegitu, kadang-kadang sedih juga dengan betapa ceteknya ilmu pengetahuan sesetengah orang Malaysia. Namun begitu, golongan ini hanya terdiri daripada segelintir  rakyat sahaja (saya berharap).

Kebenaran: Malaysia ialah negara dan Sarawak ialah negeri – Sarawak dan Semenanjung Malaysia membentuk Malaysia. Sarawak dalam Malaysia (bukan Sarawak dan Malaysia). Katolik dan Anglican ialah makzab atau denominasi dan Kristian ialah agama. Muslim ialah gelaran bagi penganut Islam, Islam ialah agama, Melayu ialah kaum. Bukan semua orang Melayu ialah Muslim, dan Muslim bukan hanya terdiri daripada orang Melayu sahaja. Orang Cina dan India yang mempunyai kad pengenalan asal ialah warganegara Malaysia dan mereka tidak boleh diusir ke China atau India kerana ini ialah tempat lahir mereka. Iban, Melanau, Orang Asli, Kadazan, Bidayuh dan sebagainya ialah kaum; Malaysia ialah kewarganegaraan. Bangsa kita ialah bangsa Malaysia!

Banyak lagi hal yang saya ingin kongsikan disini. Contohnya, tentang isu ‘Holy Water’ baru-baru ini. Air biasa yang digunakan sebagai simbol upacara agama dituduh mengandungi minyak babi dan sebagainya. Walaupun ia berasal daripada tradisi gereja dan bukannya ajaran Alkitab, ianya tetap bukan air jampi untuk menjadikan penganut Islam sebagai Kristian. Ini merupakan tuduhan yang tidak berasas dan berakal! (Fikir juga tentang isu ‘Cadbury’ baru-baru ini dan isu 'Allah', ‘Valentine’ dan ‘Starbuck’ dahulu).

Semua ini membuat saya bertanya: Kenapa kebanyakkan orang tidak tahu tentang perkara asas seperti ini? Saya berpendapat ada tiga sebab utama yang saya ingin kaitkan juga dengan penerimaan ajaran Kristian di Malaysia: 1) Kebanyakkan orang tidak tahu kerana mereka tidak diberi ajaran yang benar atau pendidikkan yang secukupnya. Kurangnya pengetahuan tentang sesuatu perkara menyebabkan ramai orang suka membuat tanggapan dan mudah percaya kepada apa sahaja maklumat yang diberikan kepada mereka. Jika ada ustaz mengatakan bahawa agama Kristian ialah agama yang berasal dari negara barat (padahal ianya tidak benar) ramai orang akan percaya tanpa usul periksa kerana mereka tidak diberikan maklumat yang sahih dan secukupnya (Kadang-kadang kebenaran sengaja tidak diberitahu supaya orang percaya tanpa berfikir).

2) Kebanyakkan orang tidak tahu kerana mereka tidak memeriksa maklumat dengan fakta dan mengambil inisiatif untuk mengkaji sesuatu perkara itu. Kejadian seperti penyebaran maklumat melalui laman sosial contohnya, telah mengakibatkan kita marah atau membuat tuduhan dengan membuta tuli. Pernahkah kamu membaca dan percaya atau marah dan menyebarkan maklumat tentang sesuatu perkara tanpa usul periksa dahulu yang akhirnya (selepas beberapa hari atau minggu kemudian) mendapati bahawa ianya tidak benar? Kejadian seperti isu ‘Cadbury’ dan ‘Holy Water’ merupakan contoh jelas yang baru-baru ini berlaku. Apabila orang Kristian yang benar berkata bahawa “Yesus lahir ke dunia, menjalani hidup tanpa berbuat dosa, telah mati di kayu salib bagi dosa manusia, bangkit semula selepas tiga hari dan barangsiapa yang percaya bahawa Dia ialah Tuhan dan menerima Dia sebagai Juruselamat, mereka akan diselamatkan daripada hukum dosa dan Roh Kudus akan tinggal di dalam mereka” pernahkah Berita Baik ini diselidiki dengan mendalam lagi?

Akhirnya, 3) Kebanyakkan orang tidak tahu kerana mereka memang tidak mahu tahu perkara yang sebenar. Ini kes yang paling berat! Mereka tidak mahu tahu samada Sarawak dalam Malaysia, samada Katolik itu makzab atau agama, samada khutbah yang didengarkan itu betul atau salah, samada ajaran Alkitab itu benar atau tidak. Mereka tidak mahu tahu kerana mereka sudah selesa dengan keadaan mereka sekarang. Ego dan harga diri lebih penting daripada kebenaran. Mereka tidak mahu tahu langsung samada dosa mereka benar-benar telah diampuni. Mereka tidak mahu tahu apa yang akan berlaku kepada mereka apabila sudah mati kelak – syurga atau neraka. Mereka bergantung kepada pekerjaan baik dan menilai kemuliaan mereka berdasarkan pemikiran diri sendiri dan bukannya dengan bersandarkan kepada kasih kurnia dan menerima dengan iman jalan menyelamatan yang diberikan oleh Tuhan melalui Yesus Kristus. Mereka tidak mahu tahu kerana mata rohani mereka telah ditutup oleh si Iblis. Mereka tidak mahu tahu kerana mereka tidak sanggup mengambil risiko apabila mengetahui kebenaran yang sebenar. Mereka tidak mahu tahu kerana... mereka tidak mahu tahu. Ini kes yang paling berat!

“Mereka” yang saya maksudkan disini ialah – kamu dan saya.
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Monday, June 9, 2014

Hymn to a Good Wife

Pic taken from: confessionsofacollegestu.blogspot.com
A good woman is hard to find,
    and worth far more than diamonds.
Her husband trusts her without reserve,
    and never has reason to regret it.
Never spiteful, she treats him generously
    all her life long.
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons,
    and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places
    and brings back exotic surprises.
She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast
    for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it,
    then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work,
    rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work,
    is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth,
    diligent in homemaking.
She’s quick to assist anyone in need,
    reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows;
    their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
She makes her own clothing,
    and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
Her husband is greatly respected
    when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them,
    brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
Her clothes are well-made and elegant,
    and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say,
    and she always says it kindly.
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household,
    and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her;
    her husband joins in with words of praise:
“Many women have done wonderful things,
    but you’ve outclassed them all!”
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades.
    The woman to be admired and praised
    is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.
Give her everything she deserves!
    Festoon her life with praises!

(Proverbs 31:10-31, The Message) 
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Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Master of Divinity (M.Div) in Tongue Ministry (Enrol Now!)



A prayer stuck up on my friend’s office table: “Lord, help me to keep my big mouth shut until I know what I am saying!” What a wise advice to follow. I think James, the half-brother of Jesus, was probably writing from the same kind of experience when he writes, “Beasts, birds, reptiles and all kinds of sea-creatures can be, and in fact are, tamed by man, but no one can tame the human tongue. It is an evil always liable to break out, and the poison it spreads is deadly” (James 3:7-8, J.B. Phillips).

If you think James’s reaction is a little extreme, ask Christian leaders how much harm is being done in their congregations, churches or fellowships by negative gossip, criticism, lies or part-truths being spread about, and how much time is being wasted by Christians in idle, useless chatter. Ask me. Ask yourself. In fact, ask anyone and they will testify that it is true.

The tongue is one of God’s most precious gifts to us. You can use your words – both spoken and written – to help, encourage, motivate and build up other Christians, and to bring the not-yet-Christians to a fuller understanding of the Kingdom of God and the relationship that God wants to have with them through Jesus Christ. We all should enroll to God’s school in Master of Divinity (M.Div) in Tongue Ministry, if you know what I mean, to learn how to control and use it for God's glory!

Do not let your words be a hindrance to God’s work rather than instrument for it. Let it be use “to bless our Father, God” and not “to curse our fellow-men, who are all created in God’s likeness” (James 3:9). Therefore, do not just be alert before you speak (or write post update on your Facebook and Twitter), think and be wise, and if possible, pray as well!

I think: It is better to ask God to control your tongue than to speak in tongue
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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Kudus, Kudus, Kudus



“Kudus, kudus, kuduslah TUHAN semesta alam,
Seluruh bumi penuh kemuliaan-Nya!” (Yesaya 6:3, TB)

Alkitab menyatakan bahawa Allah itu kudus, tanpa cela, suci dan sempurna. Dari Kitab Kejadian hingga Kitab Wahyu, Allah menyatakan Diri-Nya sebagai TUHAN yang Kudus. Allah kudus sehinggakan Dia tidak dapat menahan dosa dan tidak mampu melihat dosa.

Oleh kerana kekudusan Allah, Dia berpaling dan membelakangkan Tuhan Yesus Kristus apabila Kristus mengambil kepada diri-Nya dosa seluruh dunia di kayu salib. Itulah satu-satunya (hanya sekali) masa dalam kesatuaan Allah Triniti dimana hubungan Allah Bapa dan Allah Anak mengalami keretakkan.

Kristus berseru di kayu salib, “Ya Allah-Ku, ya Allah-Ku, mengapa Engkau meninggalkan Aku?” (Markus 15:34, BM). Betapa dahsyatnya kesedihan dan kesakitan (secara fisikal dan rohani) Kristus ketika itu apabila kegelapan dosa yang ditanggung oleh-Nya telah menyebabkan Allah Bapa berpaling meninggalkan-Nya. Namun betapa indahnya ketika itu (sekarang dan selamanya) apabila Kristus mengorbankan diri-Nya yang kudus dan suci untuk mati bagi setiap dosa yang sepatutnya ditanggung oleh kita.

Sekarang, Allah berfirman agar kita menjadi kudus seperti Dia (1 Petrus 1:16). Tetapi bagaimana ini boleh terjadi? Bagaimana kita yang berdosa ini boleh menjadi kudus? Apabila kita menerima dan mengaku bahawa Yesus Kristus ialah Tuhan dan Juruselamat kita, Dia akan hadir dalam kehidupan kita, menyucikan kita daripada dosa, dan tinggal di dalam kita melalui Roh Kudus-Nya. Pada masa itu, kita akan mula bertumbuh menjadi seperti Dia, dan akan terus bertumbuh dalam iman sehingga kita bersama dengan Kristus suatu hari nanti dan memiliki tubuh yang baru dalam hadirat-Nya.

Oh betapa indah-Nya Allah itu.
Melalui Kristus apa yang kita anggap sebagai mustahil –
pendosa menjadi kudus – boleh terjadi.
Puji, syukur dan hormat kepada Allah Tuhan kita! Amen.
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Monday, June 2, 2014

Practice Authentic Facebooking




I quote this from Jesse Rice’s The Church on Facebook,

“Because Facebook is an environment that typically rewards the most clever or the most willing to risk self-revelation, we can sometimes exaggerate or downplay certain things about ourselves to get a response. Likewise, we can be tempted to ‘overshare’ ourselves with others in order to get and/or keep their attention. Obviously, most of this is good fun. We can certainly take ourselves too seriously, even in such a playful environment, and that would not help any of us.

But many of our relationships are starving for a lack of authentic interaction. One quick way we can practice ‘authentic Facebooking’: Take a look at your profile – the picture you’ve posted, the information you’ve shared. Does the content reflect your God-given nature? Is it ‘true’ to who you really are? If you’re funny, be funny. If you’re artistic, be artistic. If you’re neither, just be you. This can be applied to your interaction with others, too, whether in a wall-post, a message, or a status update. Are you being ‘you’ in the way you interact with your Facebook friends?”
[Jesse Rice, The Church of Facebook (Colorado Spring: David C. Cook, 2009) pg. 213-214]

The Question is:
Are you being ‘you’ in the way you interact with your Facebook friends?
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