Dear Annabel,
This
is going to sound really awful, but it isn't much you can do to stop your
parents from getting a divorce. You have tried, uncle knows about it, to get
your parents to love each other again. But the truth is, my dear, nobody can make anybody love anybody else.
You don’t have to play-cupid, it is a mythology. I don't want to be sound
harsh, you know that your parents have made a decision and it's something you
will not able to change no matter how hard you try.
Do
you know? Many children who are going through a divorce dream that their
parents will get back together – but that very seldom happens. Your parents
have made what they believe is the best decision, and by the time they tell you
their decision, they've thought about it a lot and have pretty much made up
their minds. We who witnessed your parents making decision know that it was a
tough decision for them both.
So, Bel, rather
than putting your energy into trying to get your parents to stay together, put
your energy into helping yourself stay strong. There is a blessing in this
mess. Remember that you once told uncle that you want to make a difference?
Well, if you face this difficult moment with a brave heart and faith in God,
our Saviour, you someday can help those who will face the issue of divorce like
you. You can be their mentor and teacher! :)
Love,
Angelus
THINK BIG.
START SMALL. GO DEEP.
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